MATURE ADULT discussion about neighborhoods

I don’t like how my prior discussion ended up attracting a combination of trolls, senior citizen haters, race-baiters, and people who like to argue and spew facts about the law that are a total aside from the topic at hand, and then it seemed to disappear entirely from the site.I’d like to have a discussion for mature adults without the mudslinging, or even the extremely odd false righteousness... [more]

I don’t like how my prior discussion ended up attracting a combination of trolls, senior citizen haters, race-baiters, and people who like to argue and spew facts about the law that are a total aside from the topic at hand, and then it seemed to disappear entirely from the site.  I’d like to have a discussion for mature adults without the mudslinging, or even the extremely odd false righteousness of hating children (which we most certainly do not) or being a closet bigot (which we are definitely not) but pretending to uphold some societal utopia.  If you are a mature husband and wife in your late 50s or 60s, you’ve had your kids and raised them, where in the city would you like to live?  Even perspectives of a childless couple in their 30s who don’t intend to have kids would be interesting.  Thoughtful responses welcome.  Childishness can be in its own separate discussion. [less]